Love: Is braindead

If a loved one has broken up with you, probably the first thing that comes to mind is how to get him back. It’s only normal. Split ups are extremely painful. Specially if you were on the receiving end of the bad news. All kinds of feelings start racing through the head and no amount of logic can change the way a person feels after a bad heart break.

Logic does not apply here!

First question that comes to mind is “Why did you do it?”, but chances of getting an honest answer are slim. This is all but normal, because straight answers are usually backed up by logic. Feelings on the other hand don’t work this way. This is the reason why they say things like “it’s not you it’s me” and offer their friendships. Feelings and logic are almost incompatible. Nevertheless you have to remember that there are certain rules that apply to relationships too. Love is not an exception to this rule! For example you can do some silly things and cause a breakup. But if something can be affected in a bad way, it means that it can also be affected in a good way.

Sometimes old is better than new. It’s general knowledge that an average boyfriend feels more at ease going back with his former girlfriend than finding a new one. This is simply because a boyfriend knows his old girlfriend better and already trusts her up to a certain point.

Books on the subject

One particular books comes to mind, that was written by a talented writer, specifically on the subject. The book is based on scientific and historical facts, which were assembled after examining many relationships and why some of them were fixed, while others remained permanently broken relationships. I guess it’s best described as an instructional manual which is applied over a period of 2 months. I remember how a girlfriend of mine applied this system on a seemingly permanent breakup. She admitted to me that it was a little bit hard to follow the advice, but in the end it worked. Within 2 months she was back with her boyfriend. This book empowers you to do things that you thought you are not capable of doing.

Instead of being a victim you become a witty object of desire. The old love gets rekindles and the relationship blossoms once again.

Oh the irony of life, she has so much power in this relationship now, that it’s almost too much. So much so that she’s thinking of breaking up with the boyfriend herself.